8 June
1908 OH – 18 Sept 2003 NY
Daughter of Thomas Kenneth Mark & N. Regina Gruissy
When
my paternal grandmother turned 90 [1998] our family had a cookout at beautiful Clermont
State Park on the Hudson River, organized by Roy & Nicky Brown. The day was
cool and cloudy but the rain that threatened held off. We moved picnic tables together and spread out our food. Younger cousins ran around the trees and
rolled down the hills. Small groups walked the trails.
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Larry & Babs (Engel) Brown sign the Birthday Quilt |
I
brought along a gift for my grandmother. I had sewn the top for a lap quilt for
Grandma. It was intentionally unquilted. It was a signature quilt & first
needed to be signed by the family. I draped it across a picnic table and asked
everyone to sing their names and a birthday message. I had brought along
special fabric markers. I got about 25 signatures. Some people had fun and
wrote funny notes.
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Great Grandchildren add their signatures. |
Delbert K Brown, oldest child
of Ivy, wrote: Your No. 1 Child,
Delbert Keith
Leo D Brown, second child of
Ivy, wrote: Happy 90th Love, Leo
Genevieve (Brown) Wieland,
daughter, wrote: Psalm 23, King James, Thanks for Everything, Jenny
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Signatures |
Larry L Brown, son, wrote:
Happy Birthday Mom from Your Favorite Kid, Larry
Robert A Brown, son wrote:
Happy Birthday, Your Smartest, Robert A.
William Brown, son, wrote:
Happy Grandmaw Day, Mom, Bill
Viola (Mark) Nothstein, sister,
wrote: Hope you had a Nice Birthday, Lots of Love, Viola C Nothstein
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My father, Delbert K Brown, adds his signature. |
Grandma
was not able to join us at the park that day. After we had our meals we packed
up the left overs, all the children and the cake. We drove over to the nursing
home where all 90 candles on the cake were lit and we sang Happy Birthday. I
asked Grandma the secret of living to 90 years of age. She said, “Don’t pay
attention to the years.”
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Close up of Signatures |
After
the party I finished the quilt and gave it to my grandmother. The colors were
bright enough for her poor eyesight. The quilt and the love in the messages
kept her warm. After her death the quilt was returned to me. Some of those who
signed the quilt have died. Children who signed with unsteady hands have grown
up and some have children of their own. The quilt is a wonderful snapshot of
the day, showing who we were on that wonderful day.
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Ivy (Mark) Brown with four of her children, enjoying birthday cake |
My
paternal grandmother would be 105 years old on June 8 if she were still with us.
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