Viola Cathern Mark Nothstein
26 May 1913 OH - 26 Jul 2004 OH
Daughter of Thomas K. Mark & N. Regina Gruissy
Mother of Loyal, Norbert, Benieta & Kenneth
Sister of my paternal grandmother, Ivy Mark Brown
My great aunt
Ray & Viola (Mark) Nothstein, 1935
Anyone in the family will be quick to tell you what they remember about Viola. She never forgot a birthday. She sent birthday cards to everyone in the family, which I personally know included her grand nieces and nephews and her great grand nieces and nephews. I looked forward to receiving those little flowery cards with a handwritten note each year. Viola (Mark) Nothstein was the fourth child of Thomas and Regina Mark.She told me she was named after her Aunt Rephenia Cathern (Gruissy) Nichols (her mother’s older sister). She made it very clear that her middle name was not Catherine. Her nickname was ‘Vie’, given to her by a boss for whom she once worked.,
Viola said her favorite toy as a small child was a "Nanny Doll" which is 200 years old. When she was a child she wanted to be a school teacher. She liked going to school because she "wanted to learn". When asked how she celebrated her birthday as a child she wrote, "For Owen, Clarence and I, having birthdays so close together were celebrated with the Sunday school class having a party."
Viola said that she and Owen were “pretty near alike, like twins though we were born two years apart. We were almost like twins. In fact, a lot of times Mother passed us off as twins when we were young. See, I was small for my age, very small. And Owen was a little big for his age.” They took a trip to see their Aunt Rephenia Mark Nichols. Regina told people on the train that Viola and Owen were twins.
In school Viola was behind other children her age. She had whooping cough her first year of school. It was a long walk to school. Viola said, “We walked to school and I’d go a day or two and then I couldn’t go for another day or two and then I’d be back to school. So the next year I had to stay behind.”
When Viola was beginning second grade her Aunt Rephenia came for a visit. She wanted to take Viola back to Michigan with her. She wanted to ‘build her up’. Regina checked with the doctor who thought the change might be good for Viola. So she spent several months in Michigan. Schools there were behind the schools in Ohio so Viola was put ahead a level. She gained a little weight and had a good time with her aunt and uncle.
After school she did housework. During summer vacations, she worked. Her family never took summer vacations. Her first jobs were ironing or babysitting. Viola's talents were drawing, painting and "fancy work". Before she was married, Viola did housework for people. She worked in a shirt factory and dress factories. She also worked in a restaurant.
Viola married Raymond Alexander Nothstein. She met him when she, “double dated with another girl that was with him." On a typical date they would go "to a show". They were married on 10 July 1935.She remembered that she wore a white lace dress to her wedding. Viola and Raymond were married at 2:00 pm at Wadsworth Methodist Episcopal Church by Rev. Harold Buckey. Raymond had been in the Navy at one time. He was a farmer.
Viola and Raymond had four children: Loyal David Nothstein, Norbert Allen Nothstein, Benita E. (Nothstein) Pierce and Kenneth Howard Nothstein. Viola wrote that their first child, Loyal, was born "at home in a big snow storm”. Kenneth was named after Viola’s father, Thomas Kenneth Mark.
After the breakup of her marriage with Raymond, Viola moved to Florida. Her daughter lived there. Viola bought a house nearby.
Sisters: Ivy (Mark) Brown & Viola (Mark) Nothstein, 1998 NY
Photo taken by this Blogger
A note in a 1997 Christmas card from Viola she wrote,” I broke my right wrist in April. It was so bad that they put pins in it for 6 weeks and then a splint on till the end of July. It was terrible trying to do things left handed. I’m finally able to write again.”
In March 1998 she wrote,
We have been making juice of our lemons & oranges and still have juice oranges on the trees. I’m trying to plan how I can come to New York this summer. I would like to see all of you up there. You know that I don’t drive. I also smoke so I don’t know who can stand to have me at their house while I’m there and can take me around. The tornado just missed us by 3 miles. We have been very Lucky with all the tornados & Hurricanes that have been close to us.
A June 1998 letter gave her flight information for her visit from Florida to New York State. She stayed in Poestenkill with our family and we took her to visit with many family members during her visit. She visited her older sister, Ivy Mark Brown, in the nursing home.
In December 1998 Viola fell and broke her hip. She wrote that she was in a rehabilitation center for a month. In her July 1999 letter she said she was able to get around without using a walker or a cane.
In December 2000 Viola wrote about moving from 1099 Kingswood Way, where she had lived for many years, to 1098 Wexford Way. Both were in Port Orange, Florida. She wrote, “Bee & I moved across the street. The house on Kingswood was getting too small for the six of us. It’s a smaller house but we’re still close to them.” In the same letter she said her son, Kenneth, had been ill.
After her death, Viola’s daughter sent me a prayer card which says:
Viola Nothstein, May 26, 1913 - July 26, 2004. Port Orange. Viola Nothstein, 91, of Wexford Way, a resident since 1989, died Monday at home. Mrs. Nothstein was born in Rittman, Ohio, and moved to this area from White Plains, Md. Survivors include three sons, Loyal, Rootstown, Ohio; Norbert, Falcon, Colo.; and Kenneth, Eubank, Ky.; a daughter, Benita Pierce, Port Orange; a sister, Wava Braun, and a brother, Clarence Mark, both of Ohio; 12 grandchildren; and nine great-grandchildren. Memorial donations may be made to the Easter Seals Society, 1219 Dunn Ave., Daytona Beach, FL 32114. National Cremation Society, Melbourne, is in charge.
Certificate of Birth for Viola Cathern Mark, Registration Dist.#828, Primary Registration Dist. #2869, Registered #28 , State of Ohio, Bureau of Vital Statistics.
Marriage Certificate for Viola Cathern Mark and Raymond A. Nothstein, 10 July 1935, Vol. O, Page 130, Certificate. #432, Medina Co., Probate Court-Marriage Record, Ohio.
Letters from Viola C. Nothstein (Port Orange, Florida) to Delbert K. Brown (Woods Rd., Germantown NY) and Colleen Pasquale (7 Seneca Dr., Averill Park NY) from 1994 – 2003.
The above story of Viola was taken from my book,
The Mark Family Story.
